my children prefer to keep their stories private. thank goodness. i want to tell all the things about them, but i respect their limits. they are able to advocate for themselves. it is a good lesson for me in what to give to others and what to keep for myself. i am striving for authenticity and integrity in my writing and in my life. i want to tell my stories, and at the same time keep my sensitivity and vulnerability close to my heart. stories need an audience. i yearn to keep quiet, but here in this space i lovingly give my words away because stories cannot be kept.
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Meghan... :) I have the same struggle with my kids. I would love to post everything about my teens but I want them to know I respect their privacy too. Thank you for giving your words and sharing with me :) Visiting from FMF.
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thank you, cindy. it's hard to find a balance that feels authentic but safe for everyone.
DeleteReaders wonder why bloggers get so quiet about their cuties...this is why! They do grow and change, and it's so important to respect that boundary. Good words here.
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Deletei like how you said that, marie. thank you!
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ReplyDeleteThank you Meghan for your post!!! I'm not in your situation, but I hope you could be inspired and don't go out of your limits.
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